For some obscure reason this outfit makes me think of Major Kong riding the nuclear bomb like a bull in Dr. Strangelove. I always thought he said, “Yeeeeehawwwww!” But he actually yells, “Whaaaaahooooo!” So we all learned a bit of annihilation cowboy trivia.
I wore this to a saloon-themed awards ceremony, The Rockies, for the Boise advertising industry. I’ve been a writer in this ad scene for nearly 20 years, and it’s been one of the strangest years yet. AI has warped some brains, including mine. I had a horrific client who fed my work into ChatGBT to rewrite and it sounded like a high schooler with a thesaurus trying to sound smart. (Then she stiffed me for $6k. I should’ve known.) Demoralizing doesn’t begin to describe the way AI twists my painstaking writer mind into knots with its instant spitting out of mediocre paragraphs.
My mind has been spinning for several reasons. I’m attempting three equally ambitious projects this year—run a successful business, launch a new brand, finish a book—and it appears I’ve bitten off more than I could chew. My mouth is comically full. Instead of immediate gains in the first quarter, I lost gobs of hair (likely due to stress) and had to cut it off. I lost my appetite. I lost my desire to Cheep. I lost my clear vision for my future. The comedown from my delusions of grandeur feels like Major Kong with less enthusiasm. It feels like bombing.
But I’m getting a second wind with the spring. A friend told me today about the way trees push into the hard-packed ground to root in before they reach out into the air. And when they do, they branch out in many directions. I am no tree, but I believe I can fly. I can touch the sky. I’ve had to change a lot about myself and my habits and my work patterns to even make it to the point where some sort of progress might be visible on the surface. All I can do is keep pushing forward, and stop being frozen in the gates before the bull ride of it all.
“Believe in yourself,” says the psychiatrist talking to the unicorn on his couch. I believe. I believe. I believe.
Banjo Dallas, Texas red western shirt with cowboy boots & rope pattern & gold buttons – $5.99, Idaho Youth Ranch thrift store | Maxima by Wilson black leather skirt – $7.99, Restyle thrift store | Frye knee-high black leather boots – $75, Bombshell & Blokes “head to boots” fall make-up event
Cheep it like a nuclear cowboy.